The Nobel Peace Prize has been awarded to some truly inspiring heroes:  Mother Teresa, Martin Luther King Jr., Albert Schweitzer, His Holiness  the Dalai Lama, and Nelson Mandela, to name a few. To know not just the  crafted public face of these remarkable people but also to peer into  their innermost souls would be priceless. That is what Eric Utne has  done by publishing the love letters to his stepgrandmother Brenda Ueland  from Norway’s great explorer and humanitarian Fridtjof Nansen, who was  awarded the 1922 Nobel Prize and whose bold work with the League of  Nations and the Red Cross repatriated countless prisoners of war and  saved the lives of millions of international refugees.
The Norwegian statesman met Ueland, author of the best-selling If You Want to Write,  only in one flaming-hot weekend, when he was 67 and she was 37. The two  fell immediately in love and wrote letters across the ocean for a year  until his death. The charismatic Ueland once told Utne that she had  “three husbands and a hundred lovers”—but Nansen earned a special place.  “A letter from [Nansen] was the light of my days, and I have never in  my life felt just this way at any time… . And all the time, you  understand, it was a sort of dream love affair, a literary one.”
Nansen’s  letters to his extramarital lover show a powerful contrast to his  austere public persona. They are vulnerable, sensual, and startlingly  candid about his emotional isolation, his disgust with life and  politics, and his uncertainty and humility. He bares his inner self to  Ueland, who years later wrote in an essay: “Listening is a magnetic and  strange thing… . My attitude is: ‘Tell me more. This person is  showing me his soul… .Then he will be wonderfully alive.’ ”
Read some of Nansen’s letters to Brenda Ueland …

The Nobel Peace Prize has been awarded to some truly inspiring heroes: Mother Teresa, Martin Luther King Jr., Albert Schweitzer, His Holiness the Dalai Lama, and Nelson Mandela, to name a few. To know not just the crafted public face of these remarkable people but also to peer into their innermost souls would be priceless. That is what Eric Utne has done by publishing the love letters to his stepgrandmother Brenda Ueland from Norway’s great explorer and humanitarian Fridtjof Nansen, who was awarded the 1922 Nobel Prize and whose bold work with the League of Nations and the Red Cross repatriated countless prisoners of war and saved the lives of millions of international refugees.

The Norwegian statesman met Ueland, author of the best-selling If You Want to Write, only in one flaming-hot weekend, when he was 67 and she was 37. The two fell immediately in love and wrote letters across the ocean for a year until his death. The charismatic Ueland once told Utne that she had “three husbands and a hundred lovers”—but Nansen earned a special place. “A letter from [Nansen] was the light of my days, and I have never in my life felt just this way at any time… . And all the time, you understand, it was a sort of dream love affair, a literary one.”

Nansen’s letters to his extramarital lover show a powerful contrast to his austere public persona. They are vulnerable, sensual, and startlingly candid about his emotional isolation, his disgust with life and politics, and his uncertainty and humility. He bares his inner self to Ueland, who years later wrote in an essay: “Listening is a magnetic and strange thing… . My attitude is: ‘Tell me more. This person is showing me his soul… .Then he will be wonderfully alive.’ ”

Read some of Nansen’s letters to Brenda Ueland …

Utne Reader founder Eric Utne is feminist and author Brenda Ueland’s step-grandson—and that he was editing a book of love letters between Ueland and the Norwegian polar explorer Fridtjof Nansen, with whom she had a passionate, albeit largely epistolary, affair. Ueland and Nansen met in person only in one flaming-hot weekend in 1929, when she was 37 and he 67, and thereafter wrote letters overseas for a year until his death.

Titled Brenda, My Darling, the book is being published simultaneously in Norway by Orfeus Publishing as Nansens siste kjærlighet (Nansen’s Last Love) and launched this week. Here in the states, Fridtjof Nansen’s name may be known only to the most ardent Arctic explorer enthusiasts among us, but he’s a hero in Norway—a Nobel Prize winner whose humanitarian work famously saved the lives of millions of refugees and prisoners of war. The letters to Brenda reveal an entirely new side of the austere hero as a sensual and vulnerable lover: “O Brenda,” he wrote, “there is not a corner of my heart or soul which I do not wish you to look into.”

The Norwegian edition of the book also reveals the full frontal: nude photos of Nansen that he mailed to his extramarital lover. These photos have erupted in controversy in Norway, where Eric Utne is currently launching the book. The newspaper Aftenposten (the Oslo equivalent of the New York Times) reproduced the nude photos in an article—an act that has the public focused more on the sex sex sex than on the romance and humanity of the letters.

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